Chronic illness and Christmas planning necessitates being adaptable

So, we have a chronic illness – or two – or more! Can people with chronic illness do any planning for Christmas? Will it make any difference?

I say emphatically YES! See why we should plan and how to accomplish it.

My only planning BL (before limitations) involved the meal for Christmas Day. I knew approximately what I intended to make, so I would shop to have the proper ingredients on hand. From experience, I knew what to make on which day, so everything would be ready for Christmas.

… And then my limitations began, worsening as the years passed. So my planning – menu and timetable – became more detailed. In recent years, I simplified the menu and asked for help. I also had to plan for gifts and Christmas cards.

My family and I adapted our expectations and plans. Do you need to do the same?

When we clarify our ideas about Christmas and examine our past plans, we can weather the difficulties inherent in Christmas planning and chronic illness.

But why should we?

Our family and friends need us.
For many people, this holiday is about joy and giving.
If we are Christians, Christmas is all about Jesus and we need to remember Him.
Lastly, we do not want our limitations to get in the way of enjoying this time.

Now, how to do it?

Examine the situation
Consider your abilities.
Ponder what Christmas means to you.
Decide what traditions are important to keep.
Scrutinize social obligations you’re expected to meet.

Answer these questions

Need to redefine expectations?
Or simplify activities?
Maybe let go of old traditions?
Start new traditions?

Use imagination

Research new ways of celebrating the season.
- Is there another way to have a meal?
- How about celebrating at someone else’s house?
- Is travel a possibility?
Sam Moss, who became almost totally disabled this year, along with her husband came up with a unique idea. For details, see her post, A Holiday At Home – My Very Own Bed and Breakfast.
Imagine, imagine, imagine.