Giving Thanks — Me? You Have to Be Kidding!

Is your life rotten right now?

Really rotten?

Or maybe this is a good patch right now?

Did you know if you look hard enough, you can find SOMETHING to be thankful for?

I’m going through one of those awful times right now (yes, 2018, too). Well, actually for the last few weeks. Don’t get me wrong: my life physically is never good, if by good you mean being able to do what you want and go where you wish. But too often, the “normal” gives way to miserable. And that’s what life’s like just now. What a time to write about gratitude!

On the other hand, maybe an exacerbation is the best time to write. I can certainly empathize with you who live in lousy circumstances.

Thanksgiving. Food. Turkey. Family. Football. Giving thanks.

Finding gratitude

Wait a minute. What in my awful life is worth gratitude? But then I think past the pain and weakness, and I see people who love me and whom I love. I look around at my nice house. I remember great doctors who give me good care. And underpinning everything, I acknowledge the God Who enables me to survive, even on those days I kind of wish this life would just end. (I’m not suicidal, but if you’re leaning that way: Please get help. Talk to someone. Call 1-800-273-8255. Read my post. Do something. Your life is special.)

This means it’s time to simplify. Yes, again! You know, I really tire of adapting, adapting, adapting. But such is my life.

And it’s time to think about gratitude. I know it’s hard for a person to be thankful when he’s hurting or she’s sidelined. Or maybe he’s just received an unwanted diagnosis. Perhaps she’s going through a time of exacerbation.

See ideas for you challenged people to stimulate the gratitude process and tips to make it easier to join in the fun.

For you friends of the dwellers, we’ve included ideas for helping. As always, know your friend and be sensitive to their desires.

For you who dwell in storms

Find something to be grateful for

• Examine the image above.
  • Find one word that jump-starts your gratitude attitude.
    • Meditate on it.
  • Start a gratitude journal.
    • If you need help to get started, see Emily’s journal in More Resources below.
  • Cultivate your attitude of gratitude.
    • List one word a day to describe what you’re thankful for.

Planning

• Evaluate in advance: Are the results worth the price you’ll pay?
• Simplify anything you can - meals, decorations, accommodations for company.
• Be gracious when someone offers help.
  • My grandkids help. Without them, I couldn't do it.
• Ask for help when appropriate. It can be hard to ask for help, especially when you need so much assistance.

Helpful actions for you observers of storms

• Take food over, but check first for likes and allergies and inquire about times.
• Offer to help cleanup afterward.
• Invite your friend and his family to your house, maybe for dessert if you or they are not up to a meal.
• See if she’d like help decorating her house.
• Ask if help is needed to clean the house in preparation for company.
• Give smiles and hugs.
• Make a call or visit.
• Send a card.
• If nothing else, prayer is always available.

Sending wishes for a fantastically grateful Thanksgiving!

In conclusion, whether you’re disabled or fully able, enjoy this Thanksgiving!